Negotiation / Boundary Setting
Be sure to address Lady Grace appropriately and professionally
Email should include your name, age, profession and main interests
Share what you most enjoy or what you would like to get out of a session / experience.
Close off the email politely and respectfully.
If you do not receive a response within one week check your email and spam folders. Ask yourself: were you respectful??
You may need to reframe your request into a professional and respectful email and try again.
If you were respectful then please follow up as sometimes emails do get lost.
Be sure to email directly and do not use advertiser forms
If you are accepted:
If accepted to serve you will then pay
a minimum tribute of $50 for consulting and negotiation.
Negotiation for the depth of play that Lady Grace specializes in takes effort regardless of you booking a session. Of course we most hope you will become a permanent addition and book many sessions for ongoing, heightened training.
Negotiation Form: We will look at many aspects of your interests and limits as well as history, abilities, triggers, etc. and then discuss your answers and questions as needed.
Waiver : There is an indemnity waiver to sign before any sessions online or in-person may begin, much as you would sign at a chiropractor's office. This includes clauses for My protection from harm.
If you have any questions or concerns we can discuss them throughout the negotiation
however this should be quickly leading to a booking.
*The consulting fee may be increased for specialized consulting ie: for high risk interests.
Chatting or Online Domination is paid separately.
Trust and more involved play comes not only as I learn, explore (and test) your responses and abilities, but also as you gain trust of me and my abilities.
This takes time.
While I do most enjoy long term, regular submissive 'pets' which allows for such in depth exploration, this is not a requirement.
Ongoing negotiation and updates with valuable long term pets is Included in session tributes
I play and explore in my sessions rather than just enacting the same scenarios or experiences over and over.
This requires explorations where some things will work better than others from which I watch carefully and learn, delving into many ways of taking pleasure from you.
Limits and boundaries are never able to be tested without risk of actually finding out where they are, and we don't truly ever know where a boundary is till it's passed.
I prefer to learn about my pets so that I may carefully walk up to their limits, slowly expanding them rather than go flying past them or risk hurting them.
As such we use safewords in all sessions (green, yellow or red).
Aftercare is scheduled into sessions
And ongoing reports /updates with limited aftercare is available
HOWEVER submissives need to understand these risks and be ready for self-care.
* ONGOING BOOKINGS Once you are my submissive 'pet' our relationship is much much more than just a transactional one.
You may not be used to this level of inclusion and caring, of such in-depth negotiation or the ongoing check-ins, updates, reports, and follow up that Lady Grace includes.
This ongoing nature helps to create a depth of exploration far beyond what most Dommes can provide, especially when delving into the mental and emotional aspects (which Lady Grace most delights in). It is also what allows her to 'cook up' such diverse and incredible experiences. It is part of the higher tribute fees of sessions with a more skilled and educated practitioner.
This is the level of expertise that makes Me a premier Domme AND Educator.
HAVING EXPERIENCE IS NOT REQUIRED
In fact, I specialize in walking new subs (especially women) through their first explorations.
The submissive ALWAYS has use of a safe word/signal.
I started this business to save people from being hurt
by those who have no training or skills, from extortionists, from those who know little of BDSM, nor care anything for the deep psychological impact this world creates.
And remember- you must protect my limits just as I protect yours.
You will be required to give your full name before a session is booked and it
will be checked against your ID at a pre-screening a few minutes before the first session. This is for My safety and is common practice in all legitimate service industries, just as is this one! As with physio, massage, doctors, counsellors and Myself, we strive to protect your information and full discretion!
First email does not have to include your full name, but negotiation will require this.
* ONLINE SERVICES DO NOT REQUIRE THIS *
Note: If you are not comfortable in giving your full legal name at all then you may be able to pay an extra fee for In Person Sessions to cover the cost of private security and a specialized rented space.
Do remember, I would not be a respected member of the international community if I were misusing this information!
I work to
accommodate different abilities/disabilities and am LGBTQ2a friendly.
Just as you go to a professional dentist when you need your teeth fixed, finding someone trained and highly skilled, I ask you to choose your Domme with even more discernment.
Do not see someone without education or skills or you are likely to get
Further, as you do not try to 'date' a dentist just for free dental work, you also do not date someone to have specific Kinky service needs met.
Treat your powerful unique kinky needs as even more sacred and to be cared
for than your base simple ones. Dentists are a dime a dozen, where educated and skilled BDSM providers are exceptionally rare.
Tribute goes towards the costs of learning these skills as well as the exceptionally unique and expensive overhead of materials, preparation, cleaning, furniture, etc etc.